Nov 092015
 

The 5 Most Powerful Ways To Expand Your Sexual Pleasure

Rebecca Lowrie, The Sexual Alchemist, talks about her upcoming online Bootcamp: The 5 Most Powerful Ways To Expand Your Sexual Pleasure.

As you may know, I recently put out a survey, asking you how I could best serve you in the new year. I am always interested to hear what you need most and how I can best be of service to your sexual growth and expansion.

The number one thing that you told me you were interested in was Expanding Sexual Pleasure. Almost everyone who responded to the survey said this was one of their priorities and one of the things they really wanted help and support with. I was delighted with this information and immediately started to create a way to help you Expand Your Sexual Pleasure.

**UPDATE: The 1.5 hour recording of this Bootcamp is now available to purchase in the shop. Click here to find out more>>>

I’m delighted to announce the first ever Sexual Alchemy Bootcamp: The 5 Most Powerful Ways To Expand Your Sexual Pleasure!

Date: Tuesday 10th November, 2015

Time: 7-8:30pm GMT

Where: Any place you have access to a computer and the internet!

Cost: £18 

Bookings for this Bootcamp are now closed. Click here to purchase the recording of this Bootcamp>>>

We will spend an hour and a half together exploring and experiencing the things I believe are the 5 most powerful ways to expand your sexual pleasure. You will be able to interact with me via a live chat box so that I know how you’re doing with each of the exercises. Obviously you will be in the safety and privacy of your own home, so you can even attend the Bootcamp in your pajamas or totally naked if you wish!

Don’t worry if you can’t attend the Bootcamp. It is being recorded and will be available to purchase in the shop a week or so after it’s broadcast.

I look forward to sharing an evening of fun and learning about expanding your sexual pleasure with you!


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If you’re inspired and would like to book a Sexual Alchemy session, email me at rebecca@thesexualalchemist.com and tell me what you’re interested in. I look forward to hearing from you!

Rebecca Lowrie, The Sexual AlchemistRebecca works with individuals and couples to help them expand their ideas and experiences of sexuality. Using various forms of conscious sexuality, including tantra and conscious kink, Rebecca can help you transform your sex life into something deliciously juicy, delightfully fun and ecstatically blissful!

 

Oct 232015
 

Empowering Your ErectionRebecca Lowrie, The Sexual Alchemist, shares her Empowering Your Erection Program with Dr Martha Tara Lee on the Eros Evolution Radio Show.

I was honoured to be asked to appear on Dr Lee’s radio show to talk about my Empowering Your Erection digital program.

We had a great time chatting about sexuality in general and in particular, the connection between sexuality and spirituality. We talked about the importance of presence, breath and self-enquiry as paths to having expanded and deeper experiences of sex and sexuality.

Martha also asked me about why I created the Empowering Your Erection program and how a digital product can help men with erection issues. I talked her through the program and told her how each section is based on the private sessions I’ve offered to men over the last 10 years. Have a listen to find out more…

 

Find out more about the Empowering Your Erection digital program here>>>>

Find out more about Dr Martha Tara Lee here>>>>

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If you’re inspired and would like to book a Sexual Alchemy session, email me at rebecca@rebeccalowrie.com and tell me what you’re interested in. I look forward to hearing from you!

Rebecca Lowrie, The Sexual AlchemistRebecca works with individuals and couples to help them expand their ideas and experiences of sexuality. Using various forms of conscious sexuality, including tantra and conscious kink, Rebecca can help you transform your sex life into something deliciously juicy, delightfully fun and ecstatically blissful!

Oct 062015
 

Rebecca Lowrie, The Sexual Alchemist, asks how she can best serve your sexual growth and expansion?

So I know it’s only October, but I’m already thinking about how I can help you in 2016!

I’d love to create the perfect session, program or whatever else would help you to grow and expand your sexuality, to fully embrace and celebrate yourself as a magnificent sexual being.

I’m curious – what are your most urgent sexual issues and needs? What it is that you would like to learn or discover about your sexual self in the coming months and the new year?

To make it super easy for you, I’ve created a very short survey (only 6 questions!) and I would be immensely grateful if you’d pop over to it and fill it out.

You can can do the survey completely anonymously and you only have to answer the questions you wish to answer. Obviously the more you answer the better I can serve you.

It shouldn’t take more than 5 or 10 minutes of your time. You can complete it in the form below or on this page.

A million thank you’s and a big warm juicy hug coming at ya!

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Sep 212015
 

Empowering Your ErectionRebecca Lowrie, The Sexual Alchemist, announces her brand new Empowering Your Erection Program and explains why you should apply now!

Over the last 10 years I’ve had the joy and pleasure of working with at least 2000 men and their sexual issues. One of the most frequent things I’ve seen is men wanting to work with erection issues. Whether they’re experiencing full blown erectile dysfunction or just want to feel more confident with the erections they have, many men are looking for permission, liberation, healing and empowerment with their erections.

Earlier this year I released a digital, multimedia program, The Transform Your Sex Life Series – Empowering Your Erection (originally called Erectile Dysfunction) consisting of a 32 page eBook + 4 exclusive audios that men could download and do in the comfort of their own homes. This program aims to give you the power to heal, transform and empower your erection yourself with simple and very effective exercises based on the sessions I offer in person.

The digital program has received fantastic reviews and feedback and so far everyone that has used it (that has reported back) has felt huge benefits and improvements with their erections. Hurray! I’m absolutely over-the-moon thrilled about that!

Quite a few of the men who’ve used the digital program have asked if I would offer an in-person program to compliment the digital program. I thought that was a genius idea and so have created something really special as a response. The Empowering Your Erection Program is a bespoke program of in-person sessions, Skype sessions, email support and much more.

There are three different levels of exploration and support. You can choose from the 3 month Silver Program, the 6 month Gold program or the 9 month Platinum Program. Once you apply, you will be invited to a free 20 minute Skype chat so we can discuss your individual needs. Then I will create a bespoke Empowering Your Erection program just for YOU!

The beauty of this program is that it gives you the opportunity to fully commit to your personal sexual journey. You will be expertly guided and supported the whole way through. Working together over a period of time allows us to explore more deeply and really expand your possibilities for pleasure, intimacy and confidence with your erection.

If you’re ready to Empower Your Erection, boost your sexual confidence, learn techniques to last longer and have more pleasure then this program is for YOU! Apply now to transform your connection to your penis and your erection, to learn how to cultivate your sexual power and be the most confident, extraordinary and conscious sexual being you can be. ➞ Apply Now!

Find out more about The Empowering Your Erection Program here>>>>

P.S. As part of this program you will receive a complimentary copy of the digital Transform Your Sex Life Program – Empowering Your Erection. If you’ve already bought that program, I will reduct the price of it from this in-person program! ➞ Apply Now!


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Jul 312015
 

Magical Monthly Morsels to help transform your sex lifeRebecca Lowrie, The Sexual Alchemist, shares her ‘Magical Monthly Morsels’ to help transform your sex life.

As you know, over the last few months, I’ve been experimenting with new things and new ways to help you embrace, celebrate and transform your sex life.

Often, as I move through my week, I get to read a lot of articles on the interwebs about sex and sexuality. Some are fantastic, some are not quite as good but still interesting, and some, well, are kind of rubbish.

I’m going to do a little experiment over the next three months of posting and sending you ‘Magical Monthly Morsels’ – a collection of articles I’ve read, or at least scanned, that I think may have value for you.

I may or may not agree completely with each article, but if I feel it’s interesting, offers a unique point of view, is a bit of fun or would serve you to expand your sexuality in some way, then I’ll include it.

You can read all of them, some or none of them – whatever works for you! These are random and not in any particular order.

Magical Monthly Morsels to help transform your sex life

Here are this month’s ‘Magical Monthly Morsels’ for you:

1. This was a really lovely article from a man who’s spent 26 years researching sex.

2. Wanna decorate your home with beautiful vulvas? Here are some suggestions for how to do just that.

3. Lovely article about how being trapped in the ‘man box’ can hold you back from being who you really are.

4. How to capture the energy of masturbating to power your USB devices! This article is particularly aimed at the energy you create when watching porn, but porn isn’t at all necessary to get the benefits of interesting contraption.

5. How technology is impacting our sex lives. Some interesting and some slightly disturbing points!

6. Ok, this article about the current state of affairs with porn was just too long, so I admit I didn’t read it all. I did scan through most of it. I liked the author’s final comment: ‘We should be worrying about the kind of society that would lead to the types of pornography we find distasteful in the first place – and work on fixing that society rather than blaming its inevitable result.’

7. Info about different sexual positions. Not the most important part of sexuality, but could be helpful for some.

8. Guys, the size of your penis really doesn’t matter! Here’s an article I found on the interwebs about that, and here’s an article I wrote about that recently.

9. The title of this one says it all, ‘Anal sex: What you need to know’. Slightly annoying format but good info.

10. Here are 50 suggestions for getting your erotic juices flowing.

11. Nice article about what ‘old people’ know about sex that you don’t.

12. One woman’s experience of rediscovering sex after divorce.

13. Good article about the various possibilities for sexual pleasure and orgasm that are open to men, but that many men don’t know about or cultivate. Here are two bonus articles about that, that I wrote a while ago – one is here, and the other is here.

14. Thoughts about things men do that turn women off in bed. Not a bad list, although, of course, some of these are subjective.

15. And while we’re at it, 3 things that men say bother them in bed.

16. Simple but sweet article about how to actually sleep better together.

17. And finally, here’s the most recent articles I’ve posted on my blog. They are free excerpts from my new multimedia solution for men with E.D.

Transform Your Sex Life – A Word About Erectile Dysfunction, Part 1 and Part 2

Transform Your Sex Life – Maintaining Your Erection For Life, Part 1 and Part 2.

Please let me know which articles you liked and what sort of things you’d like to see in next month’s list. If you enjoy receiving these lists after 3 months, I’ll carry on with them, otherwise we’ll just put it down to experience! I am here FOR YOU afterall!


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If you’re inspired and would like to book a Sexual Alchemy session, then email me at rebecca@thesexualalchemist.com and tell me what you’re interested in. I look forward to hearing from you!

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Jul 292015
 

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Rebecca Lowrie, The Sexual Alchemist, shares excerpts from her digital program for men who want to Empower Their Erections – The Transform Your Sex Life Series Program: Empowering Your Erection

Read Part 1 here>>>> 

Read excerpts from the ‘A Word About Erectile Dysfunction’ chapter here: Part 1>>>>, Part 2>>>>

 

 

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Mental Health

So many factors can affect our mental health these days. Stress and worry about work, relationships, money, and of course, E.D. can really take a toll on our minds. Creating good practices for looking after your mental health will serve you well in all areas of your life, including your sex life.

Here are some ways to reduce mental stress:

  • Implement the suggestions above in the physical health section (see Part 1 here). They will also greatly help with mental health.
  • Get plenty of sleep and rest.
  • Keep a Gratitude Journal. Write down at least one thing you are grateful for each day. Gratitude puts your energy system into a state of high vibration, which is good for you on all levels. Feeling grateful can pull you out of a mental fog or bad mood. Finding even one thing you are grateful for each day can reduce stress and improve your mindset.
  • Find someone you can talk to. This could be a professional person, a good friend or relative.
  • Have a good laugh! Laughter is a great way to reduce stress and worry. Medically, laughter has been related to exercise, in that it releases feel-good chemicals in your body.

Emotional Health

Whatever society or family you’ve been born into, there’s a high chance that you were not taught how to feel your emotions or how to express them in safe and healthy ways. Quite often we are taught to ignore or suppress our emotions. This is not healthy and can sometimes cause illness.

Here are some ways to look after your emotional health:

  • Join a supportive men’s group. (If you’re in London, I recommend this one.)
  • Put on some music or a film that you know makes you feel emotional and allow yourself to have a damn good cry. Notice how good you feel afterwards.
  • When feelings come up that feel uncomfortable, see if you can relax, take some deep breaths and just allow yourself to feel whatever is there. It might help to allow your body to move as the feelings come up and out.
  • Have a good laugh – see above in the Mental Health section!
  • Get a pet! Studies show that people who have a pet at home have lower blood pressure, lower cholesterol and better overall health. Dogs in particular are known for being creatures of unconditional love and joy.

Spiritual Health

Spiritual health is a very individual thing. For some people it’s about feeling connected to Divine Intelligence, Source, the Universe, a higher knowing or greater good. For some people it’s about finding meaning and purpose in life. For others it’s about feeling compassion, love and joy in their lives. Often it is a blend of all or some of these things.

Here are some ways to nurture your spiritual health:

  • Learn meditation or attend a mindfulness class.
  • Spend some time out in nature – in a beautiful forest, by the sea, near mountains, whatever fills up your soul.
  • Figure out what makes your soul sing and do more of that.
  • Get creative – paint, draw, sing, write, dance, cook.
  • Volunteer somewhere that feels good to you.
  • Spend time enjoying a beautiful sunrise or sunset.
  • Learn how to play a musical instrument.
  • Let go of the past – it is no longer here. Be in the present moment.
  • Keep a gratitude journal.
  • Go on an adventure.
  • Travel to new places.
  • Step outside your comfort zone.
  • Do something kind or generous for another person.
  • Move your body! Dance, walk, go to an exercise class or whatever gets you moving.
  • Create a garden, grow your own plants or bring flowers into your home.
  • Have a big, deep belly laugh!
  • Notice beauty all around you.

Kiss your lover slowly, sensually, as if it was the first time. Allow yourself to feel really open, vulnerable and in love.

Read Part 1 here>>>> 

Read excerpts from the ‘A Word About Erectile Dysfunction’ chapter here: Part 1>>>>, Part 2>>>>


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What people are saying about the Transform Your Sex Life Series:

‘Within two weeks of using Rebecca’s ebook I was able to have penetrative sex for the first time in my life – thank you so much Rebecca!!‘ Dan, 35

‘…the exercises are incredibly easy and empowering. Since starting, I’ve noticed two results – my erections are stronger, and an increase in the erotic “tingling” even when not erect.’ Kevin, 54

Read more…


If you’re inspired and would like to book a Sexual Alchemy session, then email me at rebecca@thesexualalchemist.com and tell me what you’re interested in. I look forward to hearing from you!

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Jun 102015
 

Why Size MattersRebecca Lowrie, The Sexual Alchemist, talks about Why Size Matters and why it’s not at all what you might think.

Does size matter?

I gotta be honest, this question bugs the hell out of me. It immediately sets up competition, the falseness that one thing is better than another, the idea that there can be a ‘right’ and a ‘wrong’.

It is an awful question that leads so many people to feeling really bad about themselves. Even if the answer is no, size doesn’t matter, the very existence of the question can lead some folk down a dark path of self doubt, and worse, self hate.

Size really doesn’t matter, however it’s our belief that size matters, that actually matters – if you get my drift.

There was a video going round the internet a few weeks back where different women, aged 18-50 were asked the question, Does size matter?

They were not asked ‘Does penis size matter’, but most of them took that to be the meaning of the question. There was a fairly even mix of answers. Some said yes, many said no. A few said it depends, or it just matters what you do with it.

On a very simple level, if you’re talking about penises, then that video pretty much sums it all up. Some people care about penis size, many don’t. Most are more concerned with connection and pleasure. That’s it.

However this question, Does size matter, this obsession with size, is just scratching the surface of something much more important.

Whether you’re talking about penises, breasts, muscles, labia, bellies, butts, thighs or anything else, we seem to have an unhealthy obsession with the size of the parts of our bodies and our bodies as a whole.

We love to judge ourselves and others based on if the size is ‘right’.

In the last couple of weeks I’ve had at least 3 men tell me that they were ashamed of their penises because they felt they were ‘too small’. This is a regular occurrence in my sessions and it breaks my heart.

I had a woman tell me that she’s never quite felt she was woman ‘enough’ because her breasts were ‘too small’.

On the other side of things I’ve had some men tell me that women had made rude comments about not wanting to have sex with them because their penises were ‘too big’.

I’ve also had several women tell me they were called sluts or some other derogatory term because they were big breasted.

What is the fucking obsession with size? Why do we have an idea that there is a ‘right’ size and a ‘wrong’ size? Why do we feel shame if we are not the ‘right’ size. Why do we shame others if they are not the size we prefer? Why do we listen to what anyone outside of us says and not just decide for ourselves what’s ok and what’s not. Why do we give our authority away to someone else?

‘Right’ size and ‘wrong’ size are arbitrary! What fits/looks good/gives pleasure/is preferred/feels good is different for everyone. One person’s ‘big’ is another person’s ‘small’. One person’s preference for small or large or whatever is perfectly OK! What society says is big or small now was different 50 years ago. It’s all made up!

Here is why size matters – or more accurately, why our beliefs about size matter and why we need to change them. Size matters because so many people are making themselves and others wrong, feeling shame, feeling not good enough because of how the think they ‘should’ be.

The obsession with size matters. The actual size, of any part of our bodies, does not matter. There is no right or wrong size. Yes, some people have preference, but preference for a particular size of breasts or penis doesn’t make the other sizes wrong. Your body is not wrong!

Please don’t look at other people’s bodies, either in real life or especially not in films or porn, and think that someone else’s body is better/worse or more right/wrong than yours.

All bodies are beautiful and perfect just as they are. All penises, breasts, muscles, labia, bellies, butts, thighs or anything else are just fine. If you can learn to love your body and your body parts just as they are, chances are you’ll attract the perfect person to you that also loves you and your body just the way it is.

Please go look in the mirror at your gorgeous naked body. Look how sensual and desirable you are! Do a little wiggle, shake your booty and stroke your delightful naked body all over. Tell your body that it is the perfect size and that you love it just as it is.


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If you’re inspired and would like to book a Sexual Alchemy session, then email me at rebecca@thesexualalchemist.com and tell me what you’re interested in. I look forward to hearing from you!

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Apr 272015
 

Sexual AlchemyRebecca Lowrie, The Sexual Alchemist, finds out that Sexual Alchemy is actually Quantum Physics and explains why that’s so exciting for her and transformational for you and the world!

Wowwww! I’ve just returned from doing Dr John DeMartini’s Breakthrough Experience! What an amazing weekend. Dr DeMartini is a Human Behaviour Specialist, author, teacher and speaker who travels the world teaching life mastery skills. The absolutely mind blowing thing, well, one of many, is that he actually explains the science behind it all – the science behind life mastery.

Now I’ve spent most of my lifetime being a bona fide ‘hippy’, new age-y, and spiritual person. I follow what I feel – in my heart, in my body, in my soul. I have generally been lead by my intuition, my inner guidance or what I sometimes lovingly call my inner SatNav.

This also applies to my work with sexuality. I don’t follow a medical model; I use energy and intention, intuition, vibration, breath. I align with a person’s energy field and set an intention according to where they say they want to go in relation to their sexual self, sexuality, etc and off we go. Sometimes focusing on breath or using touch or movement or whatever expedites this process. These things also help to empower people to transform themselves. I don’t want anyone dependent on me for their healing and transformation. That doesn’t serve anyone. I want to empower my clients to be masters of their own sex life.

Dr DeMartini pretty much explained the scientific workings of what I do!! He actually broke it down into quantum motherfucking physics and explained how my use of energy and intention, vibration, breath and touch works! I have always known that it works – I see incredible transformations in my practice every day. But I’ve never been able to explain it scientifically. I’ve always suspected that it could be explained scientifically, but didn’t know where to begin with that and, to be honest, wasn’t all that interested until recently.

I have always had a fear that if I couldn’t explain my work scientifically, if the ‘establishment’, the doctors and scientists couldn’t measure it, then I could only play small, keep quiet and stay under the radar.

Well that has all changed! Now I know that what I do is explainable by science, just not the science people kept pointing me to. It is way beyond anatomy and physiology. It’s quantum physics! That’s right, Sexual Alchemy is quantum physics!

Now I might not yet be able to repeat what Dr DeMartini took several hours to explain, but even knowing that it’s possible to explain that what looks like ‘hippy-dippy’ new-age practices and techniques are actually quantum physics fills me with huge joy, inspiration and gratitude.

I feel proud and also humble to be able to serve humanity in this way. It is an honour and a privilege. It is my life’s mission. I am going to help to transform humanity’s ideas and experiences of sexuality using Sexual Alchemy and Quantum motherfucking Physics! Look out world!

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If you’re inspired and ready to experience your own Sexual Alchemy session, then email me at rebecca@thesexualalchemist.com and tell me what you’re interested in. I look forward to hearing from you!

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Nov 032013
 

Man scary and shockedRebecca Lowrie, The Sexual Alchemist, talks about the fear that people feel about booking a session and why you should do it anyway!

Just about everyone that comes to see me tells me that they are nervous or apprehensive about coming. They tell me in their emails beforehand and again when they first arrive at my home. I welcome them warmly, often with a hug, and we sit down for a chat. Often people are visibly nervous. A sweet, but ‘what-the-heck-am-I-doing-here’ look appears on their face. There is nervous laughter, fidgety bodies and tense breathing.

Yesterday a delightful man that has been coming to see me off and on for a couple of years told me that he still feels really nervous on the train on his way here. However he completely relaxes once he arrives, we have a deep hug and he remembers how welcomed and safe he feels with me.

I reckon that what people are afraid of is partly the unknown aspect of having a session, but even more, of facing themselves, of finally experiencing the deep intimacy they have always desired. Sadly most of us are brought up to value the mind and rational thought rather than to value and listen to our bodies and our inner desires. Outer desires are fine, that keeps us focused on ‘other’ and out of our bodies, away from ourselves.

Inner desires are the messages from our higher self/soul/universe (insert whatever word works for you here) that lead us to peace, happiness, joy, and ecstatic experiences of our sexual selves. We have been taught to fear these places within ourselves, to ignore them. So doing something to actively connect with those places could feel scary. Add to that the enormous amounts of shame that has been shovelled on top of our sexual beings over time and you’ve got a potential heady mixture of fear and terror about exploring those areas of ourselves.

The good news is that you can do almost nothing better for yourself, your total health and well-being, than to address, explore and celebrate your sexual self! How we feel about our sexual selves, our sexuality, has an effect on every other aspect of our lives. If we don’t feel confident, satisfied, happy about something in our sex life, the rest of our life and our health suffers too. By giving this aspect of ourselves some focussed time and attention we bring healing to all areas of who we are and our whole life too.

Whether you’re coming for a session to address something that isn’t quite working for you, to explore pleasure in whole new ways, to expand your sexual possibilities or something else entirely, it’s likely that you will feel a bit nervous at the beginning and that is totally ok. It is a positive sign that you are absolutely ready for an opening and expansive journey into your true sexual self.

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Related Posts

101 Things That Might Happen In A Sexual Alchemy Session Part 1>>>>

101 Things That Might Happen In A Sexual Alchemy Session Part 2>>>>

101 Things That Might Happen In A Sexual Alchemy Session Part 3>>>>


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If you’d like to book a session or find out more, please email me at rebecca@sexualalchemy.com and tell me what you’re interested in. I look forward to hearing from you!

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May 262013
 

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Rebecca Lowrie, The Sexual Alchemist, talks about how men can learn to orgasm without ejaculation to last longer & have more pleasure.

Very often in my private practice men tell me that they want to learn to last longer and expand their pleasure during sex. Many men believe that they have to ejaculate to enjoy sex or masturbation and that once they’ve cum it’s all over.

The thing is, ejaculation and orgasm are two different things. Usually they occur at the same time unless a man learns to separate them. Ejaculation is the expulsion of semen from the body and orgasm is the delicious waves of pleasure and movement of energy through the body that often accompany it.

So why would a man want to learn to separate the two? Here are some of the many benefits:

  • Last longer during sex and masturbation
  • More control and choice over when you ejaculate
  • Experience wave after wave of orgasmic bliss for as long as you want
  • Circulating orgasmic energy throughout the body is very good for your health!
  • Have expanded orgasms – even full body orgasms!
  • Orgasm as long as you like without ejaculating

So if you want to last longer, enjoy sex more, expand your orgasms and even improve your health, learning to orgasm without ejaculation is just the thing for you! The great news is that it’s easier than you might think and fun too! I have helped hundreds of men learn to do this and would be thrilled to help you too.

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Related Posts:

Expand Your Orgasmic Possibilities>>>>

How Often Should I Ejaculate>>>>

Maintaining Your Erection For Life Part 1 and Part 2>>>>

 


If you’d like to book a session or find out more, please email me at rebecca@rebeccalowrie.com and tell me you’d like to learn to orgasm without ejaculation. I look forward to hearing from you!

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Dec 152012
 

Sacred Relationship

Rebecca Lowrie, The Sexual Alchemist, shares what she believes makes a ‘Sacred Relationship’.

I’d always suspected that loving, healing, nourishing, sexy, deeply intimate relationships were possible. Instinctively I knew that ‘relationship’ had the potential to be a powerful container for divine alchemy – the transformation of ‘all that doesn’t serve you’ into something new, exquisite and sacred.

What makes our relationship great – what makes it work? Why, after seven years together, do we still feel the pleasure, joy and deliciousness that we felt at the beginning? What is essential for Sacred Relationship?

Here are some of the key elements that keep our sacred relationship working:

Consciousness – Our relationship is valuable and precious to us. We are aware of what we’re creating, for the present moment and for the future. We consciously nurture and feed our relationship, keeping it vibrant, healthy, alive and full of love.

Communication – Clear, open, honest communication is vital in any relationship. Don’t expect the other to read your mind. We voice things as they come up, no matter how small they might seem, to keep the air clear. We speak our truth and listen with our full attention. We sometimes hear things through the filter of our ‘stuff’ so if in doubt, we take time to clarify what’s been said.

Owning our ‘stuff’ – So often problems that occur in a relationship happen because we act or react to a situation based on our experiences of the past. We want to blame someone else, not take responsibility for ourselves, our journeys, our vulnerability. Being clear about what is ‘my stuff’ and what is ‘your stuff’ can sometimes feel edgy but is the only way to be in the present, not in the past with each other.

Patience and compassion – with ourselves and each other.

Commitment – We take time to consciously connect with each other, no matter how brief, on a daily basis. Quality not quantity is important here.

Willingness – to be vulnerable, to spend time, to commit to a higher quality of relationship, to listen to each other, to transform, to grow, to try something new if the old no longer serves you, to move through fear, to stand in the fiery furnaces of ‘relationship’ and let it transform you.

Opening – to the beautiful flow of love, sex and divinity, allowing them to blend together so that each fuels and nourishes the other.

Being present.

Courage.

Tantra has taught me all of these things and more. It has made my Sacred Relationship with Todd possible and is what keeps it dynamic and flourishing. It would be an honour to share some of this with you either on your own or with your partner.

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If you’d like to book a session or find out more, please email me at rebecca@thesexualalchemist.com and tell me what you’re interested in. I look forward to hearing from you!

RebeccaLowrieRebecca Lowrie works with individuals and couples to help them have better sex lives. Using various forms of conscious sexuality, including tantra and conscious kink, Rebecca can help you transform your sex life into something deliciously juicy, delightfully fun and ecstatically blissful!

Dec 152012
 

Sex, love andRebecca Lowrie, The Sexual Alchemist talks about the importance and pleasure of connecting sex, love and divinity.

In many ways, tantra saved my life. Really. My sexual energy was spiraling out of control and I didn’t know what to do with such an abundance of it. It was sort of like having the keys to a Ferrari and not knowing how to drive. My relationships had either been full of love or full of sex but I hadn’t quite managed to have both at the same time.

Then I discovered tantra – not the tantra I’d read about in books, but real, experiential, live-as-it-happens tantra. I learned that, although raw, primal sexual energy feels really good, when it is allowed to blend and mix with the energy of the heart, with love, it becomes something entirely different and utterly amazing. I don’t mean this in any ‘goody-two shoes’ kind of way, I mean it in the ‘knock your socks off, didn’t know this was possible’ kind of way.

If you think about it, love and sex are two of the most potent energies we have flowing through us. They are often said to be what makes the world go round. Now imagine learning to consciously combine these two powerful energies – whether to use when you’re being sexual or just living your everyday life – and wow! Now take that one step further and allow this heady mixture to fuel your connection to Source, the Universe, Divinity and ‘holy orgasm batman’, what a recipe for bliss, ecstasy!

This is where tantra’s reputation for mind-blowing sex comes from. It’s not about specific ‘techniques and methods’ for touching the clitoris or how to give the best blowjobs. It’s about getting present and connecting our sexual energy to our hearts and the Universe.

When these three energies begin to connect and flow freely, a whole new world of possibilities opens up. As you practice consciously connecting sexual energy and love, you’ll come to find that just allowing love to flow will start to fuel your arousal. My partner has come to affectionately call this his ‘love hard-on’. And there’s more… you can allow your sexual energy to nourish, heal and open your heart when it is feeling shut down and protected.

If that’s not enough, the cherry on the cake is union with divinity. (Union with divinity!) When the blend of sexual energy and love is allowed to travel up through your body, and out through the top of your head you experience your connection to the Universe, to the All-That-Is.

In this place you are truly free, liberated from ‘ego’, the ‘self’. The mixture of sexual energy and love is the rocket fuel that blasts you into this cosmic realm. Making love (with yourself or a Beloved) from this connected, flowing space is literally ‘out of this world’.

I could have carried on having relationships that were full of love or full of sex, where the two never met. But something in me instinctively knew there was more. My relationship is deeper, fuller and more intimate because of it. I’m so grateful to have discovered tantra. It has changed my life in every way and now I am blessed to be able to share it through my work. I look forward to meeting you along the path.

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If you’d like to book a session or find out more, please email me atrebecca@rebeccalowrie.com and tell me what you’re interested in. I look forward to hearing from you!

RebeccaLowrieRebecca Lowrie works with individuals and couples to help them have better sex lives. Using various forms of conscious sexuality, including tantra and conscious kink, Rebecca can help you transform your sex life into something deliciously juicy, delightfully fun and ecstatically blissful!

Dec 152012
 

TheSexualAlchemist.com
Sexual Alchemist & conscious sexuality practitioner Rebecca Lowrie talks about how being truly present makes sex deeply intimate, and totally mind-blowing!

It happened in a phone shop on a normal high street in north London. I was waiting for my phone to be returned when the young man working in the shop asked me what I did for a living. I never know quite how to answer that question and various answers usually pop out of my mouth. ‘I teach sacred sexuality’, I told him. ‘Oh,’ he said.

I could almost hear the cogs of his brain turning. ‘So what could you teach me?’ he asked. Feeling it to be a genuine request, I asked him if he wanted to learn how to have the most mind-blowing sex ever. ‘Of course!’ he said, laughing a little nervously. Several other assistants and a customer were now paying attention. ‘Come here,’ I said. He came and stood in front of me, less than a foot away. ‘Relax… breathe… now bring yourself fully into this moment and look into my eyes’. He did exactly as I instructed and after about five seconds exclaimed, ‘Wow, ohmygod, what did you just do? That was amazing! AMAZING!’ He was ecstatic. All I did was request his full presence and offer him mine back. It’s that simple really. He was still muttering happily to himself when I left.

Being present is one of the most important, useful, joyful, mind-blowing things I’ve learned from my journey through tantra. Being really present in each and every moment is all there really is and yet we usually have our attention in the past or future.

Most of us are taught at a very early age how to distract ourselves. A friend once told me about a trip to a funfair where each time she got on a ride, her friend would say to her, ‘What are we going on next?’ She didn’t get to enjoy the ride she was actually on because her attention was constantly being drawn to the future. We all do this in one way or another. We reminisce about the past or worry about tomorrow, but rarely take time to just be where we are.

When we get really, truly present, the world changes completely! When I allow myself to be fully present with my partner, he is new and different in each and every moment! What a delight! Our relationship, our love making never gets old or stale because all the old moments are gone, dead. Here we are in this brand new moment that didn’t exist before, oh, and here’s another one. Who is this amazing man here with me right now, and right now and right now? It’s so exciting! Every time we touch, kiss, caress is like the first time!

Try this at home: (either with your Beloved or as a solo practice looking into your own eyes in a mirror) Sit quietly with your Beloved and softly, gently, look into each other’s eyes. Let your thoughts subside and allow yourself to be fully present with whatever ‘is’ in that moment and each new moment as it unfolds. Bring your awareness to your heart and allow love to flow – in and out. Behold your Beloved as they are in this instant. In this shared space, everything is fresh and new and anything is possible. In the unpredictability of each second, the magnitude of each breath, and the vitality of each moment, your passion for each other can be constantly rediscovered. If you regularly take the time to be present with yourself and with your Beloved, your ever-evolving selves will fill a lifetime with love, desire and deep intimacy.

Related Posts:

Tantric Beginnings>>>>

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Empower Your ErectionIf you’d like to book a session or find out more, please email me at rebecca@thesexualalchemist.com and tell me what you’re interested in. I look forward to hearing from you!

RebeccaLowrieRebecca Lowrie works with individuals and couples to help them have better sex lives. Using various forms of conscious sexuality, including tantra and conscious kink, Rebecca can help you transform your sex life into something deliciously juicy, delightfully fun and ecstatically blissful!