Feb 142017
 

Valentines DayRebecca Lowrie, The Sexual Alchemist, talks about the importance of self-love and developing self-love practices.

Fuck Valentine’s Day. What a crazy idea! A greeting card company makes up a holiday so that people in relationships feel pressured to buy things for each other and people who are not in relationships feel isolated or shit about themselves.

Whether you’re in a relationship or not, the person you should be celebrating love with is yourself. Without proper self-love in place, there is no other relationship. No other sustainable relationship.

Self-love is the foundation for any other relationship.

Self-love is the garden bed in which we grow the fruits we can share with another.

Self-love, self-awareness and self-confidence. Without these any other relationship becomes a struggle, a falsehood, a sinking ship, a lie.

The Human Wound

The human wound, no matter where you’re from or how you were raised, is ‘I’m not enough’ or ‘I’m not good enough’. On a cosmic level that’s because we’ve forgotten that we ARE Source, God, Grace, the All-That-Is. We’ve forgotten that we are waves of the ocean of consciousness. We’ve forgotten that we ARE divinity and we are always trying to wake ourselves up. To re-member. To become whole again.

On top of that, our society reinforces this perceived separation every chance it gets. It tells us we need to be thinner, richer, smarter, whiter and so on. For many reasons, we hand over our power to something outside of us and believe, even more deeply, that we’re not enough unless we get/do/be/have the things someone outside of us (who has also forgotten) tells us we need.

Lack of self-love strips us of our power.

Learning to love yourself is a practice. It takes time to build the self-love muscles. Imagine going to the gym every day to get strong and build muscles only to leave the gym and be told that muscles are bad and wrong. This is sort of what it’s like trying to build self-love muscles. We are constantly submerged in a society that tells us that to love ourselves is selfish and bad.

Caring for myself is not self-indulgence, it is self-preservation, and that is an act of political warfare. Audre Lorde

A foundation of love

Let me tell you something. Without a foundation of self-love, there is no other love. If you don’t love yourself, if you don’t feel your worth, your value, then you are always a beggar for love. You are always coming to another half full, begging them to fill you up. When you learn to fill your own love cup you are never a beggar to love. You are rich and full and abundant and it is sustainable because it comes from within.

Self-love takes practice

Since we live in a world that wants to tear us down, that doesn’t value self-love, in fact, needs us to NOT love ourselves to sell us shit we don’t need, self-love is really an act of rebellion. And it’s needed now more than ever. On your road to self-love there will be obstacles. Some days will be harder than others. That’s ok. Be gentle with yourself. Love yourself through the difficult days. Extra self-love is needed on those days.

Love yourself first and everything else falls into line. You really have to love yourself to get anything done in this world. Lucille Ball

Here are 10 ways you can practice self-love:

  1. Look into your own eyes in a mirror and say I love you. Say it a few times. See how it feels. Don’t worry if it feels odd or uncomfortable at first. Do it anyway. Open your heart a little bit and say it again. If it feels awkward try again the next day. Do it every day until it feels really good.
  2. Listen to your body’s needs. Your body is giving you information all the time. What is it telling you? What is it asking for? Does it need more exercise? A breath of fresh air? Would it like different food or to go dancing? Often you know very well what your body is telling you and you override it. Don’t do that. Love your body.
  3. Take yourself on a date. It can be fancy or not. It can be a daytime date or a night time date. You can go out where there are other people or go somewhere you can be alone. Do it with the intention to spend time with yourself. Get to know yourself a bit better. Enjoy yourself.
  4. Mind how you talk to yourself! Your words cast spells. Everything you think and say about yourself creates a vibration that goes into your body, your cells, your DNA and actually shifts your physiology and therefore your reality.
  5. Find at least one thing you appreciate about yourself every day. Ideally write these appreciations down somewhere. Keep them in a special journal or notebook. Then on days you are struggling to appreciate yourself you can look back at ones you’ve written on easier days. You can write lofty things such as ‘I appreciate that I’m kind and generous’ or simple things like ‘I appreciate that today I’m still breathing’ or ‘I appreciate that I make great toast’. It really doesn’t matter so long as you really mean it.
  6. Get outside in nature! Whether you consciously feel it or not, being out in nature resets your energy system. Go for a walk in the woods or along a stream. Breathe in some fresh air. Get up close to some trees and feel how deep their roots go. Allow your roots to go deep too. Stand with your back up against a tree and lean in, ask for some love or just feel it’s strength.
  7. Soak in a high vibe bath. Put some Dead Sea salts or essential oils or flower petals in a freshly drawn bath. Light some candles. Yes, I know it sounds clichéd, but it really works. Sink into the hot water and take some deep breaths. Focus on your out breath and let shit go! Bathe with the intention of letting go and relaxing or of soaking in the magic of whatever you’ve added to the bath.
  8. Read something that makes you feel good. Just one paragraph or page will do. Read some poetry or a self-help book or something funny. Anything that makes you feel good, that opens your heart, that reminds you that you are an amazing being.
  9. Practice sitting in silence for a few minutes every day. Sit or lie somewhere comfortable and set a timer – even 2-5 minutes will do. You might find when you start this practice that your mind thinks it’s time to get busy and throw thoughts at you. That’s fine. Just don’t pay them any attention. Let them float past like clouds in the sky. Let them go as quickly as they arrive. After a while they will stop trying to get your attention.
  10. Masturbate! Be mindful of your intentions when you do. Whatever you are feeling or holding in your mind as you raise arousal will get increased. If you are feeling shame or guilt or fear, then those will get reinforced. If you are feeling love for yourself, if your heart is open and you’re masturbating as a path to self-pleasure, then you will be reinforcing your value and worth. 

Self-love, self-awareness, self confidence… these are more important now than ever before! The practice of self-love is absolutely revolutionary. Please practice it every day, in whatever way you can.

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Valentines Day
Sep 102016
 

Your Sex Life Doesn't Exist In A Vacuum

Rebecca Lowrie, The Sexual Alchemist, explores the idea that your sex life doesn’t exist in a vacuum, it sits in the container of your life.

Our sex life doesn’t exist outside the realms of our daily life and vice versa. In order to truly, fully explore who we are as sexual beings, we also have to look at and address other areas of our lives. Our physical, mental, emotional and spiritual selves are all interlinked. Our sexual self is the thread that runs through all of these areas.

If you follow me on Facebook, Twitter or Instagram, you’ll know that I often talk about or post photos about health, going to the gym, eating well, meditation and being outside in nature. This is because these are all crucial to your sexual well-being.

I’d love to hear your comments about this and the video below. Please email me at rebecca@rebeccalowrie.com and tell me your thoughts!

 


Rebecca LowrieRebecca specialises in men’s sexuality and works with individuals and couples to help them expand their ideas and experiences of sexuality. Using various forms of conscious sexuality, including tantra and conscious kink, Rebecca can help you transform your sexuality into something deliciously juicy, delightfully fun and ecstatically blissful!

If you’re inspired and would like to book a Sexual Alchemy session, email Rebecca at rebecca@rebeccalowrie.com and tell me what you’re interested in. I look forward to hearing from you!

Jun 012016
 

Who is your true sexual self?Rebecca Lowrie, The Sexual Alchemist, ponders questions about who we are as sexual beings.

Most of us have been conditioned to believe there is a right or wrong around sexuality, sexual expression and who we are as sexual beings. However, apart from consent, that is not true. Assuming consent is in place, there is no inherent right or wrong way to be sexual, to express your sexuality. There is no inherent way to enjoy pleasure and intimacy.

Most cultures, religions, societies, families, etc have created rules and regulations, social mores and laws about what is and isn’t ok. We try to fit into these rules so that we feel like we belong. Because it doesn’t feel safe to not belong. Fear of being ostracised, left out, made fun of or worse, left to die, causes us to dampen down who we are. We shut off our natural urges, our natural desires. Worse, we make our natural urges and desires wrong.

We get infected with the thought that there is a ‘right’ way to be sexual and if we aren’t that way inclined, then we are bad, wrong, guilty and worthless.

So, who would you be if you had no conditioning about sex and sexuality? If you had never been taught that there was a right or wrong way to express your desires, how would you express them? If all consensual expressions of pleasure, intimacy and sexuality were ‘allowed’, how would you and your life change?


Rebecca LowrieRebecca specialises in men’s sexuality and works with individuals and couples to help them expand their ideas and experiences of sexuality. Using various forms of conscious sexuality, including tantra and conscious kink, Rebecca can help you transform your sexuality into something deliciously juicy, delightfully fun and ecstatically blissful!

If you’re inspired and would like to book a Sexual Alchemy session, email Rebecca at rebecca@rebeccalowrie.com and tell me what you’re interested in. I look forward to hearing from you!

Feb 022016
 

Wisdom for your sex lifeRebecca Lowrie, The Sexual Alchemist, shares how to improve your life and your sex life using ancient Toltec wisdom from the book, The Four Agreements.

One of the things I’m passionate about is that our sex lives don’t exist in a vacuum, they exist within the context of our lives. Sounds obvious, but I sometimes get clients who think that I can show them a magic way to have an amazing sex life without addressing other areas of their lives. I will be writing more on this in the coming months.

Today I want to share with you a fantastic book that I think helps guide us to live more easily in the world, thus helping us to have a better connection to ourselves and our partners. This in turn will lead to better life skills which translate directly to the bedroom.

The book is The Four Agreements by Don Miguel Ruiz. I first read this book about the time it came out in 1997. I was thrilled at how simple and yet deeply transformative it was – and still is.

wisdom for your sex life

The Four Agreements are ancient Toltec principles. As you become aware of them, and start to integrate them into your life, you will no doubt notice profound transformation in yourself, your relationships and how you live your life.

Let’s take a closer look at them and how they might affect your life and your sex life too.

The Four Agreements

  1. Be impeccable with your word.
  • Speak with integrity.
  • Say only what you mean.
  • Avoid using the Word to speak against yourself or to gossip about others.
  • Use the power of your Word in the direction of truth and love.

The words we speak are potent and have more impact than most of us are ever taught. How we speak, the words we use and our intention behind them creates spells. Think about it – we literally ‘spell’ words and speaking them is like casting those spells.

Whether we’re talking to ourselves, our partners, our work colleagues or even on social media, our words are powerful.

Be aware of what you’re spelling/speaking. If you want to live an easier, happier, richer, more fulfilled, more intimate life, then speak words to that.

When speaking with partners and lovers, and especially with yourself, be mindful of what you say and how you say it. Be clear, true and honest. If you are angry, find a way to dispel some of the energy and emotion before you speak so that you can be clear and not say things you might regret later.

Be mindful of your words and how you use them. Notice how different you feel and how the people around you respond.

  1. Don’t take anything personally.
  • Nothing others do is because of you.
  • What others say and do is a projection of their own reality, their own dream.
  • When you are immune to the opinions and actions of others, you won’t be the victim of needless suffering.

This is absolutely crucial and can be difficult to remember.

Think of it this way, everyone you meet or come across has a history, a past, or even something that happened that morning, which often informs how they move through the world.

We are all a complex product of our ancestry, our childhood, our thoughts, habits and conditioning. It takes patience, practice and awareness to really implement this agreement into your life, and it is totally worth it!

Combined with the other agreements, this helps you to be more present and more clear in your relationships.

Did your partner say no when you wanted to be intimate? Please don’t take that personally. Yes, of course you need to review the situation and take responsibility for whatever you need to take responsibility for, but look deeper.

Is your partner particularly tired, stressed or preoccupied? Could you offer to listen to what’s going on for them instead?

If you do your best to not take what appears as rejection personally, you open up the possibility to see what is really going on and that is intimacy – which is ultimately what we all are seeking.

  1. Don’t make assumptions.
  • Find the courage to ask questions and to express what you really want.
  • Communicate with others as clearly as you can to avoid misunderstandings, sadness and drama.
  • With just this one agreement, you can completely transform your life.

Like the previous agreement, this is crucial to being clear in your life and relationships. Clarity allows us to see the bigger picture and to make informed choices.

Don’t assume that you know why your partner is feeling a certain way. Don’t assume that they will respond in a certain way. Treat each moment anew. Unless you’ve taken the time to find out, you don’t know what’s really going on.

Even when things look or seem obvious, give someone the benefit of the doubt. Explore deeper. Most of the time people are just focused on their own lives and their own problems and are not trying to trip you up or reject you.

It takes a lot of courage to be vulnerable, to share our deeper thoughts, feelings and desires. It takes time to build intimacy and trust. So don’t assume anything, be open to what is and see how that creates more understanding and ultimately more pleasure and intimacy in your relationships.

  1. Always do your best.
  • Your best is going to change from moment to moment; it will be different when you are healthy as opposed to sick.
  • Under any circumstance, simply do your best, and you will avoid self-judgment, self-abuse, and regret.

When I first read this book and came across this particular agreement, I interpreted it to mean always push yourself hard. Obviously that is not at all what it means.

It’s much more simple than that. It just means, do your best in each moment, whatever ‘best’ is at that time.

Sometimes our best is outstanding and phenomenal. Sometimes our best is mediocre in comparison, but this is not about comparison. It’s about being true to yourself and the present moment.

What is your best right here, right now?

Anything less than your best in each moment is destructive. It can destroy confidence, patience and self-love for starters.

If you find yourself in a situation thinking, ‘Oh, I could have done better’, don’t kick yourself. Just allow yourself to notice, increase your awareness and then next time choose more carefully. Use your new awareness for conscious growth and expansion.

Conclusion

As I said before, these Four Agreements are simple and yet extremely powerful and potent. Together they are significant principles that will improve your life and therefore, your sex life too.

I’d recommend printing them out and putting them somewhere you can be reminded of them daily. Put them in your phone or wherever you will see them frequently.

Practice them daily and watch how your life and your relationships transform. 


If you’re inspired and would like to book a Sexual Alchemy session, email me at rebecca@rebeccalowrie.com and tell me what you’re interested in. I look forward to hearing from you!

Rebecca Lowrie, The Sexual AlchemistRebecca specialises in men’s sexuality and works with individuals and couples to help them expand their ideas and experiences of sexuality. Using various forms of conscious sexuality, including tantra and conscious kink, Rebecca can help you transform your sexuality into something deliciously juicy, delightfully fun and ecstatically blissful!


Nov 252015
 

Rebecca Lowrie, The Sexual Alchemist, shares a quote about the very essence of a Sexual Alchemy session.

The essence of a sexual alchemy session

Every now and then a something shows up on the internet that really speaks to me. This week I was deeply touched by this quote that appeared in my Instagram feed.

Go and love someone exactly as they are. And then watch how quickly they transform into the greatest, truest version of themselves. When one feels seen and appreciated in their own essence, one is instantly empowered. Wes Angelozzi

For me this is the very essence of what happens in my Sexual Alchemy sessions. Yes, other things happen as well but the essence, the core, is that delicious, intimate meeting of souls. That moment that you are met and seen just as you are – in a completely open, non-judgmental and loving space, something deep and beautiful happens.

Your body relaxes in ways you may never have felt before, forgotten parts of you wake up and start to integrate back into the whole and you feel lighter, brighter and more alive!

Bringing consciousness and unconditional love to our unloved places, the parts of us that are carrying fear, shame and guilt, has the capacity to totally transform and liberate us. [bctt tweet=”Being seen and loved exactly as we are in any given moment is incredibly empowering and life changing.”]

So whether we’re doing some deep healing on sexual issues, waking up dormant erotic energy, empowering your erection, exploring tantra or conscious kink, or anything else at all, please know that the essence of what we’re doing is creating a space for you to be fully accepted and loved just as you are – as a vibrant, divine and wildly sexy being!

If you’d like to know more about what happens in my Sexual Alchemy sessions have a read of these blog posts:

101 Things That Might Happen In A Sexual Alchemy Session Part 1, Part 2 and Part 3


Empower Your Erection


If you’re inspired and would like to book a Sexual Alchemy session, email me at rebecca@thesexualalchemist.com and tell me what you’re interested in. I look forward to hearing from you!

Rebecca Lowrie, The Sexual AlchemistRebecca works with individuals and couples to help them expand their ideas and experiences of sexuality. Using various forms of conscious sexuality, including tantra and conscious kink, Rebecca can help you transform your sex life into something deliciously juicy, delightfully fun and ecstatically blissful!

 

 

Nov 132015
 

Rebecca LowrieRebecca Lowrie, The Sexual Alchemist, talks about being a finalist for the Somatic Sex Educator Of The Year at the Sexual Freedom Awards!

Just a few short weeks ago I received a text letting me know that I’d been nominated and selected as a finalist for the Somatic Sex Educator Of The Year Award. I was shocked and completely thrilled!

The Sexual Freedom Awards have been around in some form or other since 1994. They went through a big change in the last couple of years, with new people taking the helm and changing the judging procedure. Over the last 21 years they have honoured sexual pioneers from all areas of the sexuality industry, from activists to strippers, sex educators, burlesque stars, publicists to bloggers and many more.

This year was the first year of having the specific category of Somatic Sex Educator and three of us were chosen as finalists. The fabulous Betty Martin, the delightful Matthias Shwenteck and me!

The awards are particularly known for having a beautiful, golden flying penis statue as the award. They are especially made in Bali, just for this event. (See photo below)

The Sexual Freedom Awards promote excellence in erotic performance and sexual services and celebrate pioneers in the field of sexuality. The proceeds of the Awards ceremony are used to fund the work of the Outsiders Trust – a charity, which supports disabled people to find partners.

On the night, the wonderful Betty Martin won the golden flying penis award in my category. Betty has been a sexual pioneer for over 30 years and absolutely deserved to win. There have been many amazing finalists and winners over the years and I am deeply honoured to be among them now.

I had an absolutely wonderful evening hanging out with some of the brightest sparks of the sexual world – many of whom I’m fortunate enough to call my friends.

Find out more about the Outsider’s Trust here>>>

Full list of finalists and winners here>>>

Rebecca Lowrie, Sexual Freedom Awards

With Beth Wallace from Bliss Festival

Rebecca Lowrie, Sexual Freedom Awards

With the lovely Arian Bloodwood

Rebecca Lowrie, Sexual Freedom Awards

Giant photo of me as they spoke about my work.

Rebecca Lowrie, Sexual Freedom Awards

The coveted golden flying penis award!

Rebecca Lowrie, Sexual Freedom Awards

Another giant photo of me as they talked about the finalists.

Rebecca Lowrie, Sexual Freedom Awards

With Beth Wallace of Bliss Festival and Pandora Blake, Publicist of the Year!

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With Katie Sarra, one of the judges and organisers and Seani Love, winner of Sex Worker of the Year award!

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Slottie The Slut Machine – an incredible burlesque performer!

Rebecca Lowrie, Sexual Freedom Awards

An amazingly talented and saucy teddy bear!

Nov 092015
 

The 5 Most Powerful Ways To Expand Your Sexual Pleasure

Rebecca Lowrie, The Sexual Alchemist, talks about her upcoming online Bootcamp: The 5 Most Powerful Ways To Expand Your Sexual Pleasure.

As you may know, I recently put out a survey, asking you how I could best serve you in the new year. I am always interested to hear what you need most and how I can best be of service to your sexual growth and expansion.

The number one thing that you told me you were interested in was Expanding Sexual Pleasure. Almost everyone who responded to the survey said this was one of their priorities and one of the things they really wanted help and support with. I was delighted with this information and immediately started to create a way to help you Expand Your Sexual Pleasure.

**UPDATE: The 1.5 hour recording of this Bootcamp is now available to purchase in the shop. Click here to find out more>>>

I’m delighted to announce the first ever Sexual Alchemy Bootcamp: The 5 Most Powerful Ways To Expand Your Sexual Pleasure!

Date: Tuesday 10th November, 2015

Time: 7-8:30pm GMT

Where: Any place you have access to a computer and the internet!

Cost: £18 

Bookings for this Bootcamp are now closed. Click here to purchase the recording of this Bootcamp>>>

We will spend an hour and a half together exploring and experiencing the things I believe are the 5 most powerful ways to expand your sexual pleasure. You will be able to interact with me via a live chat box so that I know how you’re doing with each of the exercises. Obviously you will be in the safety and privacy of your own home, so you can even attend the Bootcamp in your pajamas or totally naked if you wish!

Don’t worry if you can’t attend the Bootcamp. It is being recorded and will be available to purchase in the shop a week or so after it’s broadcast.

I look forward to sharing an evening of fun and learning about expanding your sexual pleasure with you!


Empower Your Erection


If you’re inspired and would like to book a Sexual Alchemy session, email me at rebecca@thesexualalchemist.com and tell me what you’re interested in. I look forward to hearing from you!

Rebecca Lowrie, The Sexual AlchemistRebecca works with individuals and couples to help them expand their ideas and experiences of sexuality. Using various forms of conscious sexuality, including tantra and conscious kink, Rebecca can help you transform your sex life into something deliciously juicy, delightfully fun and ecstatically blissful!

 

Oct 232015
 

Empowering Your ErectionRebecca Lowrie, The Sexual Alchemist, shares her Empowering Your Erection Program with Dr Martha Tara Lee on the Eros Evolution Radio Show.

I was honoured to be asked to appear on Dr Lee’s radio show to talk about my Empowering Your Erection digital program.

We had a great time chatting about sexuality in general and in particular, the connection between sexuality and spirituality. We talked about the importance of presence, breath and self-enquiry as paths to having expanded and deeper experiences of sex and sexuality.

Martha also asked me about why I created the Empowering Your Erection program and how a digital product can help men with erection issues. I talked her through the program and told her how each section is based on the private sessions I’ve offered to men over the last 10 years. Have a listen to find out more…

 

Find out more about the Empowering Your Erection digital program here>>>>

Find out more about Dr Martha Tara Lee here>>>>

Find out more about OMTimes Radio>>>


Empower Your Erection


If you’re inspired and would like to book a Sexual Alchemy session, email me at rebecca@rebeccalowrie.com and tell me what you’re interested in. I look forward to hearing from you!

Rebecca Lowrie, The Sexual AlchemistRebecca works with individuals and couples to help them expand their ideas and experiences of sexuality. Using various forms of conscious sexuality, including tantra and conscious kink, Rebecca can help you transform your sex life into something deliciously juicy, delightfully fun and ecstatically blissful!

Oct 122015
 

Rebecca Lowrie, The Sexual Alchemist, wants to know what videos she can make to help you with your sexual growth and expansion.

Last week I posted a survey asking you how I could best serve your sexual growth. I was delighted to have 70 responses to the survey and have learned a lot about what you need and would like from me in the coming months. One of the things that really stood out was that a lot of people would like me to produce more videos. So here’s a little video I made to find out more about the videos you’d like to see.

I’d love to hear what you’d like from future videos, so please either comment in the comment space below the video on YouTube or email me at rebecca@thesexualalchemist.com with your suggestions, thoughts and wishes. I can’t wait to hear from you!

P.S. The survey is still open if you would like to add your two cents worth! Click here to go to the survey…


Empower Your Erection


If you’re inspired and would like to book a Sexual Alchemy session, email me at rebecca@thesexualalchemist.com and tell me what you’re interested in. I look forward to hearing from you!

If you enjoyed this video, please give it a ‘thumbs up’ over on YouTube, leave me a lovely comment and share freely with your friends and followers. Thanks so much!

Rebecca Lowrie, The Sexual AlchemistRebecca works with individuals and couples to help them expand their ideas and experiences of sexuality. Using various forms of conscious sexuality, including tantra and conscious kink, Rebecca can help you transform your sex life into something deliciously juicy, delightfully fun and ecstatically blissful!

Oct 062015
 

Rebecca Lowrie, The Sexual Alchemist, asks how she can best serve your sexual growth and expansion?

So I know it’s only October, but I’m already thinking about how I can help you in 2016!

I’d love to create the perfect session, program or whatever else would help you to grow and expand your sexuality, to fully embrace and celebrate yourself as a magnificent sexual being.

I’m curious – what are your most urgent sexual issues and needs? What it is that you would like to learn or discover about your sexual self in the coming months and the new year?

To make it super easy for you, I’ve created a very short survey (only 6 questions!) and I would be immensely grateful if you’d pop over to it and fill it out.

You can can do the survey completely anonymously and you only have to answer the questions you wish to answer. Obviously the more you answer the better I can serve you.

It shouldn’t take more than 5 or 10 minutes of your time. You can complete it in the form below or on this page.

A million thank you’s and a big warm juicy hug coming at ya!

Create your own user feedback survey


 

Sep 282015
 

In this video, Rebecca Lowrie, The Sexual Alchemist, guides you through a breathing technique to help you connect your sexual energy to your heart. 

There are lots of reasons for connecting your sexual energy to your heart. For starters, our sexual energy on it’s own is a bit like electricity with no where to go. When it is channelled up to the heart, it fills up and lights up our bodies, it brings extraordinary healing life force energy with it that fills our cells and the very fibres of our beings. When sexual energy connects with the heart, both sexual energy and heart energy are supercharged and transformed into something much greater than the sum of their parts.

[bctt tweet=”When your sexual energy and your heart are connected, your experiences of both are expanded.”] Your sexual energy is not just located or experienced in your genitals, but can now flow upwards through your body, giving you an expanded sexual experience. You can feel your arousal and pleasure throughout more of your body. Sexual energy can heal and help open your heart which allows you to be more intimate with all of life.

Sexual energy and the heart are meant to work together. Practice the exercise in the video for a while and see how your experiences of your sexual energy change and transform over time. I’d love to hear how you get on. Please leave me a comment below the video over on YouTube or email me at rebecca@thesexualalchemist.com and tell me what you experience as you do the practice and how it changes your connection to your sexual energy, your genitals, your heart or anything else you notice. Have fun with it!


Empower Your Erection


If you’re inspired and would like to book a Sexual Alchemy session, email me at rebecca@thesexualalchemist.com and tell me what you’re interested in. I look forward to hearing from you!

If you enjoyed this video, please give it a ‘thumbs up’ over on YouTube, leave me a lovely comment and share freely with your friends and followers. Thanks so much!

Rebecca Lowrie, The Sexual AlchemistRebecca works with individuals and couples to help them expand their ideas and experiences of sexuality. Using various forms of conscious sexuality, including tantra and conscious kink, Rebecca can help you transform your sex life into something deliciously juicy, delightfully fun and ecstatically blissful!

Apr 272015
 

Sexual AlchemyRebecca Lowrie, The Sexual Alchemist, finds out that Sexual Alchemy is actually Quantum Physics and explains why that’s so exciting for her and transformational for you and the world!

Wowwww! I’ve just returned from doing Dr John DeMartini’s Breakthrough Experience! What an amazing weekend. Dr DeMartini is a Human Behaviour Specialist, author, teacher and speaker who travels the world teaching life mastery skills. The absolutely mind blowing thing, well, one of many, is that he actually explains the science behind it all – the science behind life mastery.

Now I’ve spent most of my lifetime being a bona fide ‘hippy’, new age-y, and spiritual person. I follow what I feel – in my heart, in my body, in my soul. I have generally been lead by my intuition, my inner guidance or what I sometimes lovingly call my inner SatNav.

This also applies to my work with sexuality. I don’t follow a medical model; I use energy and intention, intuition, vibration, breath. I align with a person’s energy field and set an intention according to where they say they want to go in relation to their sexual self, sexuality, etc and off we go. Sometimes focusing on breath or using touch or movement or whatever expedites this process. These things also help to empower people to transform themselves. I don’t want anyone dependent on me for their healing and transformation. That doesn’t serve anyone. I want to empower my clients to be masters of their own sex life.

Dr DeMartini pretty much explained the scientific workings of what I do!! He actually broke it down into quantum motherfucking physics and explained how my use of energy and intention, vibration, breath and touch works! I have always known that it works – I see incredible transformations in my practice every day. But I’ve never been able to explain it scientifically. I’ve always suspected that it could be explained scientifically, but didn’t know where to begin with that and, to be honest, wasn’t all that interested until recently.

I have always had a fear that if I couldn’t explain my work scientifically, if the ‘establishment’, the doctors and scientists couldn’t measure it, then I could only play small, keep quiet and stay under the radar.

Well that has all changed! Now I know that what I do is explainable by science, just not the science people kept pointing me to. It is way beyond anatomy and physiology. It’s quantum physics! That’s right, Sexual Alchemy is quantum physics!

Now I might not yet be able to repeat what Dr DeMartini took several hours to explain, but even knowing that it’s possible to explain that what looks like ‘hippy-dippy’ new-age practices and techniques are actually quantum physics fills me with huge joy, inspiration and gratitude.

I feel proud and also humble to be able to serve humanity in this way. It is an honour and a privilege. It is my life’s mission. I am going to help to transform humanity’s ideas and experiences of sexuality using Sexual Alchemy and Quantum motherfucking Physics! Look out world!

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RebeccaLowrieRebecca works with individuals and couples to help them have better sex lives. Using various forms of conscious sexuality, including tantra and conscious kink, Rebecca can help you transform your sex life into something deliciously juicy, delightfully fun and ecstatically blissful!