Jan 252016
 

5 Steps To Being A Better LoverRebecca Lowrie, The Sexual Alchemist, wants to help YOU be a better lover, and has a new eBook for you to do just that!

One of the questions I get asked the most is, ‘Can you teach me to be a better lover?’ People from all over the world, of all different ages and experiences want to know how to please their lovers, how to get more pleasure and intimacy out of their erotic experiences, and how to feel confident as a lover.

The great news is that YES, I can teach you how to be a better lover. 

Some people want to learn how to be a better lover through private sessions with me. I absolutely love, love, LOVE those sessions!

Learning to be a better lover is usually a process. It involves learning to be present, doing some self-enquiry, healing and letting go of ‘stuff’.

It often takes practice and patience to let go of old conditioning and allow your True Lover to emerge, to give that part of yourself permission to be free and to explore. It’s an exciting process that always leads to deeper satisfaction and fulfilment, more connection and intimacy and, of course, hotter sex!

However, not everyone can get to me for a private session and one of the things I am passionate about is empowering YOU! Soooooo… I’ve written an eBook (that includes 2 audios) so that you can learn to be a better lover from wherever you are, in your own time, at your own pace.

The 5 Steps To Being A Better Lover – Tonight eBook includes:

  • The 10 page eBook bursting with erotic information
  • Your 5-Point Action PlanTheSexualAlchemist.com
  • Practical tips for putting the plan in motion
  • 3 extra action bonus tips
  • A checklist to keep you on track
  • Plus two audios to support and guide you

Get '5 Steps To Being A Better Lover-Tonight!'

It is my deepest hope and desire that it will inspire and educate you and help you to be the very best lover you can be. I hope that it will help you to find your joy and pleasure as well as build your erotic confidence.


If you’re inspired and would like to book a Sexual Alchemy session, email me at rebecca@rebeccalowrie.com and tell me what you’re interested in. I look forward to hearing from you!

Rebecca Lowrie, The Sexual AlchemistRebecca specialises in men’s sexuality and works with individuals and couples to help them expand their ideas and experiences of sexuality. Using various forms of conscious sexuality, including tantra and conscious kink, Rebecca can help you transform your sexuality into something deliciously juicy, delightfully fun and ecstatically blissful!


 

Jan 142016
 

Rebecca Lowrie at 50

Rebecca Lowrie, The Sexual Alchemist, reflects on turning 50 and what that means for the next 50 years.

What were you doing on New Year’s Eve this year? Partying, spending time with family, reflecting on the past year and thinking about your year ahead?

I was celebrating my 50th birthday.

You could say I was equally ready and thrilled and also a little bit shocked. I mean, 50!

Sounds so old in some ways and yet I feel like I’m just warming up! There’s so much I still want to accomplish and do and create and experience.

Just Getting Started

It fascinates me and gives me hope that great people such as Louise Hay and Steven Covey didn’t start their life’s work until later in their 50’s.

I often get emails from men saying, I’m having this or that problem, and I’m in my 50’s, so it’s probably my age.

No! It’s usually nothing to do with your age! There are plenty of people our age who are perfectly healthy with great sex lives.

Whatever it is, it’s more likely down to the culmination of your conditioning, thoughts, habits and beliefs. I can help you clear, heal and transform those!

Maybe if we believe that we go downhill with age, that’s what we create.

I choose to believe that I’m going to age like a fine wine or a smelly cheese – the older the better!

I feel excited and energised about turning 50. I feel like now I can really focus in on making a difference in the world. I know myself so much better now than I ever did when I was younger.

Dr John Demartini RebeccaLowrie.com 50

In May of 2015 I did a workshop with Dr John Demartini. He asked us what our 100-year goal was. What legacy did we want to leave? How did we want the world to be different because we were in it?

That question has stayed with me ever since. It’s such a big question! Why aren’t we asked that when we’re younger and looking for direction and purpose?

I don’t think I have a complete answer to it yet, but here’s what I’ve got so far:

My 100 Year Goals

  • In 100 years’ time, when I’ve been dead for about 50 years (I’m planning to live to 100!), I would like humanity to have evolved beyond fear, shame and guilt around sexuality.
  • I would like the majority of the population to feel liberated and free to own, enjoy, celebrate and fully embrace their sexual nature, their sexual selves.
  • I would like humanity to have a much deeper understanding and experience of sexual energy and of their own true power.
  • I would like there to be a much deeper understanding of how our sexual energy is meant for so much more than the sex we currently know and I would like to have obliterated the limited belief for many that sex = penetration.
  • I would like humanity to be living much more authentically as a whole, in harmony and balance with the self, each other, nature, animals, the stars the planets and to understand how their sexual energy plays a crucial role in that.
  • I would like humanity to understand, fully and deeply, that we must own and accept all of who we are, our light and our dark, our hero and our villain, our sinner and our saint  in order to live our truth, in order to be really present and authentic, in order to create nourishing relationships.
  • Ultimately, I would like to have done my part to help heal what I believe is the greatest human wound, the ‘I’m not enough’ or ‘I’m not good enough’ wound.

RebeccaLowrie.com 50Mistakes And Wisdom

Thankfully, if I’m going to live to 100, I have another 50 years to create and leave my legacy. In some ways it doesn’t feel like nearly enough time. I mentioned that to a friend recently. She pointed out that 50 years ago it was illegal to be gay in many countries and states and now, in many places, we have marriage equality finally blossoming.

So if I have another 50 years, that means I have my whole life to live over again! Only this time I have the added advantage of having already made a whole bunch of mistakes. This time I can avoid those particular mistakes and make some brand new ones. Hopefully that will help me learn quicker. Also, I don’t have the same fear of mistakes and failure as I used to.

Since I’m starting this part of my life with some experience and wisdom under my belt, I can make different choices moving forward. I can make choices that nurture my soul instead of hurt or squash it. I can be more conscious about who I hang around with, what I eat and how I spend my time.

I am so grateful for the glorious, messy, wonderful, painful and very rich 50 years I’ve already had, and I can’t wait to see what the next 50 years bring.

RebeccaLowrie.com 50

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If you’re inspired and would like to book a Sexual Alchemy session, email me at rebecca@rebeccalowrie.com and tell me what you’re interested in. I look forward to hearing from you!

Rebecca Lowrie, The Sexual AlchemistRebecca specialises in men’s sexuality and works with individuals and couples to help them expand their ideas and experiences of sexuality. Using various forms of conscious sexuality, including tantra and conscious kink, Rebecca can help you transform your sexuality into something deliciously juicy, delightfully fun and ecstatically blissful!


 

Jan 092016
 

RebeccaLowrie.com

Rebecca Lowrie, The Sexual Alchemist, invites you to join her for the Create Your Most Prosperous, Successful And Magical Year Yet Bootcamp.

On Tuesday 12th January, 2016, I’ll be running a very special online Bootcamp called Create Your Most Prosperous, Successful And Magical Year Yet!

In it, you’ll be guided through four unique rituals that will harness the power of the elements – Earth, Air, Fire and Water – to energise your intentions and send them out into the world to work their magic for you.

In order to get the most out of the Bootcamp, I recommend you take some time to get super clear about your intention. So I’ve created a video (see below) that helps you do just that!

Even if you aren’t doing the Bootcamp, these processes will help you get clear about the year ahead and what you’d like to draw to you or manifest.

If you’d like to participate in the Bootcamp you can book your place here>>>

Date: Tuesday 12th January, 2016
Time: 7-8:30pm GMT
Place: Any where you have an internet connection!
Cost: Only £18!

*All participants will receive a recording of the Bootcamp as well as a special PDF of information about the rituals. If you aren’t able to join us at the time of the Bootcamp, you can do the rituals at a time convenient to you.

In order to supercharge your intentions, it’s essential to get really clear about what they are. If you already know, that’s fantastic, well done! If not, take some time before the Bootcamp to get clear about the intention you want to work with during our rituals.

You will be guided through four unique rituals, each one harnessing the power of one of the elements.

My recommendation would be to create one very clear, very focused intention that you want to use for all four rituals. That way you will have really juiced it up with as much energy and power as possible.

Here are some tips for how to get clear and choose your intention. You can do all of the steps below or just choose the ones that help you the most:

  1. Create some quiet, still space for yourself. Just 5-10 minutes will do. Have a pen and paper ready. Sit with your back straight and your feet flat on the floor. Relax your body. Close your eyes and take three long, slow, deep breaths.
  2. Take a minute to think over the last year and write down as many accomplishments as you can think of. These can be anything at all that feels like an accomplishment to you: ‘I wrote a book’ or ‘I got a great new job’, ‘I cooked for myself more often than not’ or ‘I didn’t give up’. Anything at all. Don’t take any longer than a minute.
  3. Give yourself a pat on the back and maybe even do a little victory dance! Yay you! Shake your booty!
  4. Now take a minute to write down what you learned over the past year. ‘I don’t like cardio, but I do like weightlifting’, ‘I need to focus more on…’, ‘I am really good at….’, ‘It feels good when I make time for…’, ‘This year I want to create…’ Again, don’t take any longer than a minute.
  5. Take three more long, slow, deep breaths. Relax your body.
  6. Write down 3 ways that you limit yourself. ‘I only allow myself to earn…’, ‘I don’t stay in touch with friends’, ‘I often say no when I really want to say yes’.
  7. Write the reverse of the things you wrote for number 6. ‘I allow myself to earn what I’m worth, ‘I make an effort to stay in touch with my friends’, ‘I say yes to the things that feel good to me’.
  8. Write down 3 things you’d like to achieve in the new year. Be as specific as you can. ‘I will write a #1 best selling book about sex’, ‘I will learn to cook more vegetarian dishes’, ‘I will ring my mum once a week’.
  9. Now put your pen down, sit up straight again, and take three more long, slow, deep breaths. Then just breath normally, eyes closed, body relaxed. Focus on your breathing. Let all of the thoughts that stirred during the exercise above just settle or dissipate.
  10. Take your focus or awareness into your heart. Slow right down and ask your heart, ‘What is my intention for the upcoming Bootcamp?’ Breathe and listen. Trust whatever your heart tells you.
  11. Write down your intention in the form of a statement. ‘I welcome financial abundance and flow’, ‘I allow new friends into my life’, ‘I attract my perfect life partner’.
  12. Do another victory dance! Get your hips and spine moving, breathe and say hell yeah!

Congratulations! You now have your perfect intention for our rituals!

Whether you want to join us live on the Bootcamp call or just receive the recording to use at your convenience, book your spot here>>>

Looking forward to creating magic with you!


If you’re inspired and would like to book a Sexual Alchemy session, email me at rebecca@rebeccalowrie.com and tell me what you’re interested in. I look forward to hearing from you!

Rebecca Lowrie, The Sexual AlchemistRebecca specialises in men’s sexuality and works with individuals and couples to help them expand their ideas and experiences of sexuality. Using various forms of conscious sexuality, including tantra and conscious kink, Rebecca can help you transform your sexuality into something deliciously juicy, delightfully fun and ecstatically blissful!