Sep 282015
 

In this video, Rebecca Lowrie, The Sexual Alchemist, guides you through a breathing technique to help you connect your sexual energy to your heart. 

There are lots of reasons for connecting your sexual energy to your heart. For starters, our sexual energy on it’s own is a bit like electricity with no where to go. When it is channelled up to the heart, it fills up and lights up our bodies, it brings extraordinary healing life force energy with it that fills our cells and the very fibres of our beings. When sexual energy connects with the heart, both sexual energy and heart energy are supercharged and transformed into something much greater than the sum of their parts.

[bctt tweet=”When your sexual energy and your heart are connected, your experiences of both are expanded.”] Your sexual energy is not just located or experienced in your genitals, but can now flow upwards through your body, giving you an expanded sexual experience. You can feel your arousal and pleasure throughout more of your body. Sexual energy can heal and help open your heart which allows you to be more intimate with all of life.

Sexual energy and the heart are meant to work together. Practice the exercise in the video for a while and see how your experiences of your sexual energy change and transform over time. I’d love to hear how you get on. Please leave me a comment below the video over on YouTube or email me at rebecca@thesexualalchemist.com and tell me what you experience as you do the practice and how it changes your connection to your sexual energy, your genitals, your heart or anything else you notice. Have fun with it!


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If you’re inspired and would like to book a Sexual Alchemy session, email me at rebecca@thesexualalchemist.com and tell me what you’re interested in. I look forward to hearing from you!

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Rebecca Lowrie, The Sexual AlchemistRebecca works with individuals and couples to help them expand their ideas and experiences of sexuality. Using various forms of conscious sexuality, including tantra and conscious kink, Rebecca can help you transform your sex life into something deliciously juicy, delightfully fun and ecstatically blissful!

Sep 212015
 

Empowering Your ErectionRebecca Lowrie, The Sexual Alchemist, announces her brand new Empowering Your Erection Program and explains why you should apply now!

Over the last 10 years I’ve had the joy and pleasure of working with at least 2000 men and their sexual issues. One of the most frequent things I’ve seen is men wanting to work with erection issues. Whether they’re experiencing full blown erectile dysfunction or just want to feel more confident with the erections they have, many men are looking for permission, liberation, healing and empowerment with their erections.

Earlier this year I released a digital, multimedia program, The Transform Your Sex Life Series – Empowering Your Erection (originally called Erectile Dysfunction) consisting of a 32 page eBook + 4 exclusive audios that men could download and do in the comfort of their own homes. This program aims to give you the power to heal, transform and empower your erection yourself with simple and very effective exercises based on the sessions I offer in person.

The digital program has received fantastic reviews and feedback and so far everyone that has used it (that has reported back) has felt huge benefits and improvements with their erections. Hurray! I’m absolutely over-the-moon thrilled about that!

Quite a few of the men who’ve used the digital program have asked if I would offer an in-person program to compliment the digital program. I thought that was a genius idea and so have created something really special as a response. The Empowering Your Erection Program is a bespoke program of in-person sessions, Skype sessions, email support and much more.

There are three different levels of exploration and support. You can choose from the 3 month Silver Program, the 6 month Gold program or the 9 month Platinum Program. Once you apply, you will be invited to a free 20 minute Skype chat so we can discuss your individual needs. Then I will create a bespoke Empowering Your Erection program just for YOU!

The beauty of this program is that it gives you the opportunity to fully commit to your personal sexual journey. You will be expertly guided and supported the whole way through. Working together over a period of time allows us to explore more deeply and really expand your possibilities for pleasure, intimacy and confidence with your erection.

If you’re ready to Empower Your Erection, boost your sexual confidence, learn techniques to last longer and have more pleasure then this program is for YOU! Apply now to transform your connection to your penis and your erection, to learn how to cultivate your sexual power and be the most confident, extraordinary and conscious sexual being you can be. ➞ Apply Now!

Find out more about The Empowering Your Erection Program here>>>>

P.S. As part of this program you will receive a complimentary copy of the digital Transform Your Sex Life Program – Empowering Your Erection. If you’ve already bought that program, I will reduct the price of it from this in-person program! ➞ Apply Now!


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Sep 142015
 

Rebecca Lowrie, The Sexual Alchemist, shares 5 books that can help you step into your full sexual power by learning about being a conscious Dominant.

A long time ago I worked as a massage therapist and healer at a charity for people with disabilities. When I first started working there I noticed a strange trend. For 3 or 4 weeks at a time, I would get clients coming in for sessions with the same issue, illness or disability. I’d learn a lot about that particular disability or illness and then within 3 or 4 weeks, there would be a different trend.

The same has been happening recently in my current practice. A couple of months or so ago, many of the men who were coming for sessions were feeling a bit lost sexually and needed some help to find their path again.

Then I had a bunch of men who needed a boost to their sexual confidence and to be reconnected to their intuitive sexual selves.

Most recently I’ve seen a large number of men who, in order to step fully into their sexual power, needed to explore, reclaim and celebrate their Dominant sexual selves.

Since Dominance seems to be the current trend, I thought I’d share with you some books that can help you explore your Dominant side. In no particular order, here are some books that explore various elements and aspects of Dominance (and submission):

 Urban Tantra by Barbara Carrellas

See my video review of Urban Tantra here>>>>

Barbara will be in London next month teaching her Urban Tantra Professional Training Program. Find out more about that here>>>>

 Radical Ecstasy by Dossie Easton

 Playing Well With Others by Lee Harrington and Mollena Williams

 The Loving Dominant by John and Libby Warren

 The Topping Book by Dossie Easton and Janet Hardy

Whether you’re feeling Dominant or not, I’d love to hear what themes are coming up for you in your sexual journey at the moment. Email me at rebecca@thesexualalchemist.com and tell me what’s going on for you right now. I look forward to hearing from you!

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If you’re inspired and would like to book a Sexual Alchemy session, then email me at rebecca@thesexualalchemist.com and tell me what you’re interested in. I look forward to hearing from you!

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Sep 142015
 

Rebecca Lowrie, The Sexual Alchemist

Rebecca Lowrie, The Sexual Alchemist, introduces the concept of ‘Saunatating’ and explains why it is good for your sex life.

Over the years I’ve explored a lot of different ways to connect in to Source or the Universe, or Infinite Intelligence or whatever you want to call it. For ease, I’m mostly going to call it Source but you can insert whatever word works best for you.

[bctt tweet=”Sex can be an amazing way to tune in to Source, in fact it’s my favourite way! “]For some people, that connection might happen naturally during sex. However, for most people it’s necessary to consciously pave the road to Source in other ways so that when you’re having sex or being sexual in some way, that road is there for you to travel.

Part of cultivating a deeper connection to your sexual self, in fact, all of your self, is taking time to be still, ‘tune in’ and listen, receive, heal or just be.

Becoming a better lover or businessperson or husband or anything, requires some on-going self development, self-evolvement, growing and expanding your understanding of yourself, others and the world around you.

Saunatating is my latest way of doing just that for myself. If you haven’t guessed it from the photo yet…

Saunatating = meditating in the sauna!

Makes sense now, right?

For me, meditating in the sauna works wonders! I do try to meditate at other times, in other places, but I’m often too easily distracted. I find I want to check my emails or get something to eat or go to the loo. My mind won’t settle and my body feels uncomfortable or at least my mind thinks it is.

When I’m in the sauna, my body instantly starts to relax. The heat feels so sensual and sort of like being held in a warm embrace. I absolutely cannot check my email or phone or read a book or be distracted in any other way. Yes, sometimes there are other people in there chatting, but I can tune them out.

I close my eyes and first take in the gorgeous smell of the wood and feel the heat starting to penetrate my skin. I love the contrast of entering the sauna feeling kind of cold and the sensation of my body starting to warm up. I set an intention for my body to release anything that no longer serves me through my sweat.

Once I’m settled and have set my intention, I focus my awareness inside my body and start checking in with my endocrine system. I want to see how it’s all working and if the glands are working in harmony. If they’re not, I listen to what they need and we find a way to create balance together.

Then I check in with the rest of my body, my internal organs, my bones, etc – sort of like a team meeting. I like greeting the different inner parts of my body, giving them some love, attention and focus – and they love it too!

Note: You could start anywhere you like or feel drawn to inside, the endocrine system is just where I like to start.

Eventually I start to feel out into the ether, beyond my body, into what I call the Matrix or the Quantum Field. Different things begin to happen.

Sometimes my body searches for the perfect template of health so it can align itself to that. Sometimes it feels like deep healing is happening and almost always, deep relaxation. I keep widening my awareness in all directions around me, allowing myself to become a bit bigger, to stretch and expand energetically.

More often than not I start to get clarity around things that are going on in my life at that time. I might hold a particular question, problem or thought in my mind as I begin to travel outwards and see where I end up.

Very often I get incredible inspiration, thoughts and solutions.

I’ve ‘downloaded’ entire blog posts, answers to difficult emails or situations and parts of several books that I’m writing, just by tuning in and ‘listening’.

sauna.5All in all, this whole process usually takes about 20 minutes. Either I slowly start to become aware of my body again, or I become aware of the heat and my own sweat. If I feel like the process is complete, I might have a swim or just go for a shower. If I feel like there is a bit more inspiration to be had, I take a cool shower, maybe swim a bit and take some time to cool down before one more go in the sauna.

Saunatating at least once a week helps me to stay relaxed, calm and focused. It also provides a great way for me to tune in to Source, which gives me enormous inspiration and feels good to my body, mind and soul.

Practicing these things allows me to apply them to my sex life.

I find it easier to drop out of my head space and into an embodied space with myself or my lover. When I open my body, heart and soul in a sexual situation it usually leads me to a Source connection too – which, by the way, is utterly amazing!

Practicing connecting to Source on my own fills me up, and helps me to bring my full self to sexual situations. Saunatating helps keep the pathways to Source open and flowing so that I have access in my every day life and especially when I’m aroused and being sexual.

How do you tune in to Source or to your inner ‘self’? Do you have a regular practice? I’d love to hear what works for you.

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If you’re inspired and would like to book a Sexual Alchemy session, then email me at rebecca@thesexualalchemist.com and tell me what you’re interested in. I look forward to hearing from you!

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Sep 022015
 

Rebecca at Sexhibition

Rebecca Lowrie, The Sexual Alchemist, attended the first ever Sexhibition in Manchester and put together a saucy video of her adventures there! Take a look…

I recently had the pleasure of teaching Intro to Tantra and Intro to Conscious Kink at Sexhibition in Manchester. It took place on 21st & 22nd August and was the very first ever Sexhibition! I had an absolute blast teaching, being interviewed by the magical Mr Deansgate (more about that in the video!) and hanging out with all the gorgeous sexy people that attended, presented, had a stall or otherwise contributed to the incredible event.

Have a look at my video of the day and give it a ‘thumbs up’ (in the upper right hand corner of the video) and then check out some of the links below to people and products that I saw and loved.

There were amazing stalls full of all kinds of sexy goodies – everything from erotic fiction to latex wear to sex toys and incredibly sexy furniture. Here are some of my faves:

Smut UK – The very lovely Victoria and Kev Blisse were there with their erotic fiction. Massive gratitude to them for helping promote my workshops at Sexhibition.

Cara Sutra – The gorgeous sex blogger Cara Sutra was there (look out for our photo together in the video!) and has written about her Sexhibition experience here.

Matt Christie – Matt is one of the few people in the world who can take a decent photo of me. He took the photo that is on my About Rebecca page. I’ll be doing a new photo shoot with him before the end of the year, so keep your eyes open for that! (There’s a photo of us together in the video!)

Kinetic Kinbaku – The very lovely William Hunter teaches Kinbaku and does performances with rope.

Kink Craft – The fun folk at Kink Craft teach you how to make your own kinky toys. You can either learn with online videos or at their live classes at various shows like Sexhibition. I didn’t get a chance to make something on the day, but everyone looked to be having a great time.

Forbidden Furniture – The most amazing and sexy furniture I’ve ever seen! One day I hope to own something they’ve made.

Black Sheep Latex – Had a lovely chat with Helen, the designer from Black Sheep Latex and absolutely loved her approach, creativity and designs. Her catwalk show was based on a circus and the models were dressed as kinky animals. Really fun and creative!

Ethical Kink – These guys has some really funky designs and even better – are all ethically produced. That means all of their products are sweat shop free, vegan and environmentally responsible.

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RebeccaLowrieRebecca works with individuals and couples to help them have better sex lives. Using various forms of conscious sexuality, including tantra and conscious kink, Rebecca can help you transform your sex life into something deliciously juicy, delightfully fun and ecstatically blissful!

If you’re inspired and would like to book a Sexual Alchemy session, then email me at rebecca@rebeccalowrie.com and tell me what you’re interested in. I look forward to hearing from you!